N.J. Stat. § 54:35-19
Unless the Director of the Division of Taxation consents in writing thereto, no State or federally chartered bank, savings bank, savings and loan association or credit union, or safe deposit company, trust company or other institution, corporation or person shall deliver or transfer any securities, deposits or other assets within its or his control or possession, including capital stock of or other interests in the State or federally chartered bank, savings bank, savings and loan association or credit union or safe deposit company, trust company, institution, or corporation, which belong to or stand in the name of a resident decedent or in the joint names of a resident decedent and one or more persons, to an executor, administrator or legal representative of a resident decedent, or upon his or their order or request, or, to the survivor or survivors when held in the joint names of a resident decedent and one or more persons, or upon his or their order or request, without:
The Director of the Division of Taxation may, either personally or by representative, examine such securities, deposits or assets of a resident decedent.
Notwithstanding the foregoing provisions of this section, a State or federally chartered bank, savings bank, savings and loan association or credit union, or safe deposit company, trust company, institution, corporation or person may transfer not in excess of the amounts hereinafter provided of funds of a resident decedent, on deposit or otherwise in its or his control or possession, without the written consent of the Director of the Division of Taxation, to a surviving spouse or $5,000.00, to any one other than the surviving spouse, $200.00; provided, such transferor shall first obtain from the transferee an affidavit, in such form as shall be prescribed by the director, establishing that the value of the gross estate, real and personal, of the decedent does not exceed $200.00 where the transferee is one other than the surviving spouse or $5,000.00 where the transferee is the surviving spouse, which affidavit, within 30 days after the transfer, shall be filed by the transferor with the director.
With respect to deaths occurring on or after July 1, 1988, the provisions of this section shall not apply to any securities, deposits or other assets which belong to or stand in the name of a resident decedent and are payable on death to his or her surviving spouse, parent, grandparent, child or children, child or children adopted by the decedent in conformity with the laws of the State, or of the United States or of a foreign country, or the issue of any child or legally adopted child of a decedent, either by virtue of joint ownership or pursuant to the decedent's will. It shall be lawful, notwithstanding the other provisions of this section, for any State or federally chartered bank, savings bank, savings and loan association or credit union, or safe deposit company, trust company, or other institution, corporation or person to deliver or transfer any securities, deposits, or other assets within its or his control or possession to a surviving spouse, parent, grandparent, child or children, child or children adopted by the decedent in conformity with the laws of this State, or of the United States, or of a foreign country, or the issue of any child or legally adopted child, without prior notice to the Director of the Division of Taxation and without the retention of any assets to pay any tax and interest which may be assessed on that delivery or transfer under the authority of chapters 33 to 36 of Title 54 of the Revised Statutes. The Director of the Division of Taxation may require affidavits or reports and records of the delivery or transfer of securities, deposits or other assets as he may deem necessary, but shall in no manner restrict the exercise of any right of a transferee to a transfer of securities, deposits or other assets subject to the provisions of this paragraph.
N.J.S. § 54:35-19