This section shall also apply when a deceased service member is not a resident of this State, but whose surviving beneficiary is a resident of this State, if that information is known.
"Child" means the individual who is a son or daughter by birth or adoption.
"Deceased service member" means any member of the Armed Forces of the United States or a Reserve component thereof or a member of the National Guard who dies as a result of enemy action, accident or disease while on federal active duty, including active duty for training.
"Gold Star family member" means the spouse, domestic partner, partner in a civil union, parent, brother, sister, child, legal guardian, or other legal custodian, whether of the whole or half blood, or by adoption.
"Parent" means the individual who is a father or mother by birth or adoption.
"Spouse" means the individual to whom the deceased service member was legally married at the time of the member's death.
"Surviving beneficiary" means the spouse, child or parent of a deceased service member who resides in this State.
N.J.S. § 38A:3-28.1