Opinion
No. 38/687.
04-04-1916
GABRIEL v. GABRIEL.
Samuel Schleimer, of Elizabeth, for petitioner. S. W. Eldridge, of Elizabeth, for defendant,
Bill for divorce between Mary B. Gabriel and Francis Carl Gabriel. Decree nisi for petitioner. On application to open decree. Application denied.
Samuel Schleimer, of Elizabeth, for petitioner. S. W. Eldridge, of Elizabeth, for defendant,
EMERY, V. C. The application to open the decree nisi will be denied. The main object of the provision of the statute, delaying for six months final decree upon decree nisi, was to afford some opportunity for protection of the court and the state against decrees which were collusive or fraudulent decrees. It was not intended by this provision for the two decrees to give a defendant who really believed he had a defense the advantage of delaying it until the case against him had been first presented before a master and decree nisi thereon, and then give an opportunity for making the entry of the final decree on the decree nisi a matter of option with defendant, by allowing him, after decree nisi, either to apply to open it on setting up his claim of defense, or to let final decree be taken if he chose; Such a course of practice under the divorce act would give the defendant, not only an undue advantage in reference to making his defense, but also such an option of interposing his defense or not, after decree nisi, as might be most unconscionably used.
There can be no suspicion in this case of any collusion between the parties. The decree nisi has been regularly obtained after defendant's failure to put in a defense, and after additional time was given to put in defense, and upon sufficient proof before the master of defendant's desertion. In an ordinary civil case such decree would not be opened except upon proof of surprise or mistake as well as merits. Here the failure to put in a defense was deliberate, and for financial inability, defendant says, but, if necessary, it might have been put in in forma pauperis. Whether he is In any better financial position now his affidavit does not show. Under the circumstances disclosed by the affidavits as to the failure to put in a defense, the application is one therefore bearing exclusively on the rights of the parties inter sese, rather than one where the court, by reason of the affidavits presented, has any duty, with special reference to the protection of the public interests of the state, to see that the defendant should now have the option of setting up the defense even on the ground that the propriety of the decree has been made a matter of fair question. Defendant, on an application made under the present circumstances, can certainly have no right beyond that of a decision on his application, on the affidavits presented on both sides. On these affidavits, I conclude that defendant has failed to make out a defense to the charge of desertion made in the petition, or to show a case entitling him to open the decree in order to further contest it. His own affidavit admits that he left the home, and, as he then told his wife in the presence of her brother, because she would not consent to sell the home, title to which was in her name. She was not obliged to consent, and her refusal (for good reasons, if her affidavit is true) was no reason for deserting the home. He never afterwards provided, or offered to provide, any other home, or contributed anything to his wife's support, and she has been largely dependent on relatives, except, during the time when she supported herself by taking boarders at the home until it was destroyed by fire. The affidavits of the defendant, his wife and others, seem to establish that he was a speculator in stocks, that his financial difficulties during the marriage resulted from this, and that he owes the petitioner's relatives considerable sums. The wife's refusal to sell the home was, as she says, because on the sale of a previous home he lost the money in speculation, and he wanted the second home sold to get the money for the same purpose, which she refused to consent to.
After his desertion the husband made no effort to see his wife or to terminate the separation brought about by his wrongful act, nor does he claim to have made any such effort. The single meeting with his wife, after the separation, was at the house of her sister, and, so far as they were concerned, was not intentional. In his petition the defendant states that he has always been ready to live with her and provide for her "in keeping with his financial circumstances," but he has never since given, or offered to give, her anything, and was not even able, as he says, to pay a lawyer a retaining fee to defend the suit. The amount asked for the retainer is not stated, but it probably was not large, and if this was his financial situation after 2 1/2 years of separation, no weight can be given to this statement as an offer to provide a home or support
The petition to open decree specified no defense other than a denial of the desertion, but the affidavits filed on petitioner's behalf contain statements intended to reflect on the conduct of the wife in receiving prolonged visits at her home from another man more than 2 years after the husband's desertion. These affidavits relate, not to what the affiants themselves know or saw, but mainly to alleged admissions of the petitioner, and have been fully met by the counter affidavits, both as to the admissions themselves as well as the visits. No defense or counterclaim of adultery is made in the petition, and these statements have no relevancy merely as a defense to a charge of desertion, which was completed before they occurred. The denial of the desertion is the only defense set up in the petition filed June 21, 1915, which alleges his continued readiness and willingness to live with his wife. In his own affidavit he admits that after the proceedings commenced and he was served with process, he told petitioner's brother it would be impossible for him and his wife to live together, in view of the fact that the intimacy of petitioner with this other man had been started, and that petitioner had probably started proceedings to free herself. This admission would seem to justify a conclusion that this delayed defense has not been made in good faith for the purpose or with the desire of establishing his innocence of the charge of desertion, or to show his continued readiness and ability to restore the marriage relation, and the home.
On examination and consideration of the whole record and the affidavits on this application, I conclude that the charge of desertion made in the petition, which was established by the proofs before the master, and his report thereon, has been further confirmed, and that, considered as an application to be disposed of on the rights of the parties inter sese, the decree nisi thereon should not be opened.
And it appearing also to be a case where there was no question of any collusion or of any imposition on the court or any other reason why the court in its control over the proceedings should, in the public interest, direct or allow further inquiry or proofs as to defense, the application to open the decree nisi should be denied, with costs.